By: David Othus

“The minute I heard my first love story I started looking for you, not knowing how blind I was. Lovers don’t finally meet somewhere. They’re in each other all along.”
~ Rumi


Many people have been asking about soul mate; is there such a thing; if so, what is that? Is it attainable; if so, how attainable is it? How can someone find his/her true soul mate?

Your soulmate is the person who intrinsically connects to you at a very deep level, brings out the best in you while you bring out the best in them. It is beyond romance, friendship or partnership. It is that unique connection between two people that takes you beyond any limits you knew was possible and brings you into a unique kind of utopia where life itself seems better and brighter.

How do you find your soulmate? The following steps can help you.


  1. Be Open To The World

“Whatever our souls are made of, his and mine are the same.”
~ Emily Brontë

To find your soul mate you have to be open to the world. There are messages and signs at our disposal; you just have to learn how to read them. There are many signs that surrounds you that will lead you to your ultimate soul mate. When you start looking for the signs, you will find your soul mate. The universe is constantly moving you towards your utopia. It is trying to move you in the direction of your soul mate, your destiny, and your pleasure.


2. Visualize The Way You Want To Feel In Your Relationship.

“He felt now that he was not simply close to her, but that he did not know where he ended and she began.”
~ Leo Tolstoy

So often, people feels so anxious in relationship. They are constantly thinking that they are not good enough, not clever enough, that their boyfriend or girlfriend will dump them, that the relationship is simply too hard. Rather than focusing on who you choose for yourself, begin to picture how you want to feel. Don’t visualize what the person will look like, the job they will have and so on. What you are looking for is that unique connection and feeling that only your soul mate will give you. Imagine what it might be like to feel safe, secure, at ease with a soul mate. When you connect with your soulmate, it will simply feel right. You will find that the two of you build on each other in unique and amazing ways, lifting each other to greater heights.


3. Wait Patiently For Fate: Figure It’s Magic

“The heart has its reasons which reason knows not of.”
~ Pascal


There is no guide to knowing when you will meet your soulmate. You could possibly be in the same hospital ward with your soulmate the day you were born or you might not meet him or her until you are in your 30s, 40s or 50s. The real truth is that destiny and fate not to follow any rhyme or explanation. If we become impatient we may end up settling for someone who is not your soulmate. If you have been with someone who does not make you to be feel complete then chances are this person cannot your soulmate.


  1. Look For The Unique Feel and Connection

Love is composed of a single soul inhabiting two bodies.”
~ Aristotle


You will know when you meet your soul mate; you will feel something that you’ve got never felt before. It’s like having love at first sight, but it feels deeper. You feel so much, within your heart, for a person before you even become familiar with a person. You will just know for those who have met your soul mate. Everything you need to know lies in their eye. If you can look in eyes and see yourself, you’ve just met the man that could forever affect your life.

In the words of Richard Bach:

“A soulmate is someone who has locks that fit our keys, and keys to fit our locks. When we feel safe enough to open the locks, our truest selves step out and we can be completely and honestly who we are; we can be loved for who we are and not for who we’re pretending to be. Each unveils the best part of the other. No matter what else goes wrong around us, with that one person we’re safe in our own paradise.”
Everyone has a soulmate out there.  Find yours, and find the paradise that was created just for you.